What exactly do I mean by that? The start of something new?

Just 4 days ago I attended the Adam Khoo's I am Gifted Motivational camp for 4 days. I learnt much there. What did I learn? Try picturing this: You're sitting in a small barge in the middle of the Ocean. Imaging the vastness of the ocean. Thats the amount of stuff that I manage to soak up these few days.

Many of us tend to give tons of excuses whenever we make mistakes. Is that a good thing to do? While many of us tend to say no, its not a right thing to do, not many of us actually realise that just by saying that, doesn't mean that they believe what they're saying.

Excuses are given for every failure because many of us have come to see excuses as a way to cover up for our mistakes. How silly of us. We're exactly like an ostrich if we do so. Hiding our heads under a load of excuses. Does that actually help us?

Despite the fact that we live a comfortable life, many of us still like to complain about the things that we don't get. Did any of us ever stop to think that for every complaint we have, thats precisely the number of people out there who are worst off than us? That is where the problem comes in. We do not want to face the facts of life. However we might put it, we just do not want to admit that we're actually living a pretty good life right now, for there are many much more people out there with lives just as bad or even worst than us.

All this brings me to this point. Are we so ignorant as to blame others for the wrongdoings that we commited? Is that the way of life that we want to lead? Many of us are like that. We tend to push the blame to other people. Sadly. we do this just to get the load off our shoulders. Isn't it sad when we see that there aren't many who are actually brave enough to own up for the mistakes that they've made.

The society can be split into 2 major categories. No, it ain't race, it ain't religion. What is it then?

Here are the 2 major categories of society:

-The Winners

-The Losers

Let us touch on these two one by one.

These are the people who do the above. They never own up for what they did wrong. Instead they push the blame to other people. Losers also give excuses for every single wrong thing that they've done. Losers also complain about their lives and never take any action to remedy the situation.

Winners are the ones who take the blame when they make mistakes. They also do NOT give excuses. The take action to counter whatever problems that they have in life.

 

Now, how else are these 2 categories of people different?

Winners do NOT take failure as a failure. They take it as a Learning Experience. Yeah, they learn from their mistakes. Its just like Thomas Edison. He did not fail to make the lightbulb many thousands of times. All he did was discover that number of ways HOW NOT to invent the lightbulb. Interesting ain't it? He did not take his mistakes as a failure but instead sees it as something in which he can obtain more knowlege from. That should be the way we live our lives.

 

We MUST have our goals in life. This is because when we have a goal in life, we won't remain stagnant in the race. We will get up and push ourselves to the maximum to move towards the particular goal. Even if we inch towards it slowly, it does NOT matter at all. As long as we get closer and closer to our goal, its considered as an improvement. Improvements prove to ourselves that we are not a nobody in life, but a somebody.

Nobody has the right to classify us as a NOBODY. We CLASSIFY OURSELVES. Thats right. If we allow others to plant these seeds of negativity into our subconsciousness, we are becoming slaves of others. WHY SHOULD WE BECOME A SLAVE?

WE ARE THE MASTERS OF OUR OWN LIFE!

Allow nobody to tell you what they think you are. Only YOU can tell who you really are.

Believing in ourseelves. Thats a key to success. If we think ourselves as winners, WE ARE!

 

The path of life ain't really easy. Its totally rocky. Sometimes, just when we thought we are about to taste our victory, something happens and we end up losing many things. However, WINNERS do NOT give up, they bounce themselves back UP again. They push themselves AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN! Until they succeed!

Wait! Is pushing ourselves again and again really all thats important? Not really. If we continue on our mistakes, we will fail over and over again. So, what must we do? We have to come up with a new plan! Thats right! Whenever we do not succeed, we have to backtrack our steps, and change our procedure over again! Its just like the science experiments that we conduct in school. Whenever something goes wrong, change the procedure!

 

Thats the things that I want to share with all for the day.

Remember, when we believe we can, WE CAN! We are our strongest support in life. Not our friends, not our family. OURSELVES!

Cheers,

WilliamG